Just Ask Elizabeth: Communication

Dear Elizabeth,

I often chat with people who just do not listen to understand what I am saying. Has the same thing ever happened to you?

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Sincerely,
Listen Please in Lancaster

Dear Listen in Lancaster,

I completely agree. Many people are quick with a reply rather than listening completely to what I am saying. I am sometimes guilty of this as well but have adopted the “count to 3” solution before answering or responding. I have shared this with others, and they are doing the same. It might just work for you, too. Good Luck!