Just Ask Elizabeth: Being Fair

Dear Elizabeth,

I know people who have the only “correct” opinion about many things especially health care. My healthy lifestyle is really my business. I recently had someone tell me that I was stupid for wearing a face mask. Has this ever happened to you? Your response

Signed,
Mask Wearer in Mt. Holly

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Dear Mask Wear in Mt. Holly,

Yes, it has. Because of health concerns, I always wear a mask indoors in groups of people. Most people realize that I have health conditions that necessitate this and understand my concerns, but others just spew their opinions without getting all the facts. I listen to their opinion, ask them when I become ill if I can move in with them until I am well again, or if they will help pay my medical bills.  Silence occurs, I thank them for their concern, they offer a blank stare and usually walk away. Works every time.